Ok Ok

I was tired of all the alcohol polls anyway so I took down the latest after hearing some opinions on it. I felt like I needed a trip to AA and I don't even drink! lol Truth is, that last one would have bogged me down. Been trying to follow the KISS (keep it simple stupid) mode of things but, well, that sure as heck wouldn't have been. And alcohol has never been a reason I went to any event but wasn't sure about others. lol

Guess I've been reading too many things about the "proper" way to do stuff when I don't really give a flip about most of it. I mean, standard etiquette is one thing but when you start delving into all of the minutiae of the planning. . .ugh. No wonder people go nuts over this stuff. And even the most laid back of people gets sucked in. Michael is right in that it's a big societal racket but it is also a beautiful thing to have. It's only the former if you cave to the industry side of it, I suppose.

But that is why I have you, dear friends, to keep me from doing that. I don't have a mother pushing at me to do things her way so that's good I guess. I don't have anyone else telling me how things should be done other than what I read and that's good too. I guess I'm swinging towards the opposite end of being a 'zilla from demanding to too questioning. lol

I may still put up a poll but, for now, I can't think of anything else to ask. Well, I have one but I think I have it answered. Just gonna stick with my original plan on that question. Hugs to all.